I'm so keen to get to certain points in my life that over the last few
years I've sacrificed the journey. Rubin talks about Tal Ben-Shahar's
"arrival fallacy" from his book "Happier". This is the belief that when
you arrive at your destination - buy the new house, have the baby, marry
- you'll be instantly happy and everything will fall into place.
However, rarely is this the case because all of those things bring
additional stresses, worries, plans and concerns. Rubin says, "The
challenge, therefore, is to take pleasure in the 'atmosphere of growth',
in the gradual progress made toward a goal, in the present."
From
personal experience, I really understood this recently having secured a
job in the travel industry after taking a four-year break. I've had two
months since knowing I got the job to revel in the satisfaction and
look forward to the challenges ahead, whilst wrapping up some of my most
pressing projects before I start commuting. Prior to that, whilst I was
working hard to find a job, I still made sure (for the majority of the
time) to enjoy those free days for personal pursuits, which I might not
have much time for in the future. I also made sure to learn from every
failed interview and I was able to get a long overdue look inside some
of the industries biggest and most respected companies.
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